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The foster system can cause serious emotional damage to children of any age.

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The foster system can cause serious emotional damage to children of any age.

Foster system sometimes fails to support children and families

December 18, 2018

Foster care is a temporary living situation for the children of parents deemed “unfit” by the child welfare support system. It is meant to support children as they find their way and adjust into a new family. As an overloaded system meant to help hundreds of thousands of children, it obviously has its flaws.

Former Court Appointed Special Advocates volunteer and foster parent Kristianna Moralls recently fostered a teenager with special needs. She has had multiple bad experiences with the system, but this one was especially heart wrenching. Moralls struggled with the difficulties of fostering a teenager and seeked support from the system.

As a system with flaws, they failed to deliver, she said. “We asked for behavioral support and were not given it. We asked for training and did not receive it.  We asked for mental health support and were not given it,” Moralls explained. “When we called for assistance the answer was to either call 911 or the mental health team and have the youth placed on a 5150 hold. It was a heartbreaking experience for everyone involved.”

Many children and foster parents have to go through this heartbreaking process throughout their lifetime. A child enters foster care every two minutes in the United States and their stay in the system can range anywhere from a couple of weeks to the time when that child has turned 18. The setting can vary as well, leaving children with foster parents, a distant relative, a pre-adoptive parent, or a group of other foster children and an adult in a group home. Fifty-eight percent of the children in the system have a goal of being reunited with their biological parents and the other 26 percent are attempting to be relocated to a new and hopefully, “forever” family.

As a system meant to benefit the lives of children, the statistics for success are surprisingly low. Fewer than 3 percent of the children in foster care will go on to earn a college degree; education is hard to attain within the system. Children will sometimes be given seven-days notice before being relocated with their school changing almost every time. Along with them being relocated, their records may also be displaced, making it hard for them to progress at a steady rate in school. On top of that, only 50 percent of foster kids will be employed by the age of 24, and 20 percent of them will become homeless after the age of 18.

The system makes it extremely difficult for children to succeed. Without solid mental health help or trauma advisors, children often live with the horrors of whatever caused them to be put into the system without any relief. That trauma isn’t helped with the constant uprooting of children from different foster homes and families at critical times in their life.

Children in the foster system will most likely have a lot of deep rooted trauma from essential caregivers that resulted with them being put in the system in the first place. Abuse at a young and vulnerable age from the people who are supposed to be their protectors will make trusting any adults especially difficult. Children will often act out, causing unaware foster parents to give up on the child and send them back into the system.

If, for whatever reason, a child doesn’t “work out” with a family, they will be given a trash bag for their belongings and will be transported to an entirely different living situation. Often, foster parents are not informed of the children’s trauma due to the lack of communication with the child or the system failing to mention it.

“It takes caring and empowered adults who want to take on parenting (not a babysitting job from the government) and parents who will take risks and make mistakes and celebrate wins and invest in their child, for there to be success,” writer and lawyer Natashia Deon said. “For those would-be foster parents to volunteer their time to parent, there needs to be more support in trauma care and mental health for children suffering the effects of abuse and abandonment and neglect and paid training for parents who have stepped up to try.”

Moralls describes the system as “hopelessly flawed.” With the amount of children in foster care, judges, attorneys and social workers can only do so much. Social workers are often assigned and taken off of multiple cases every month, making it hard for them to keep track of children and meet their needs sufficiently. “They are just given an unattainable task,” Moralls said. “There are services out there but there is no one to help the youth get them and when they do get them they are moved to another area.”

Some children get lucky, despite the harsh conditions and low hopes for success. Moralls was a success story herself, being adopted from the system as a baby and later adopting her son out. Deon grew up with two brothers and one sister who were adopted from the Foster Care System. Her sister is now working in a paid internship with Tesla, one brother is working with the US Air Force, teaching aviation, and the other has made a good life for himself, living and working in Germany. “But all of that took a lot of work and support from my family,” Deon said. “Raising teens is hard anyway, then add in past trauma. But, I wouldn’t change my family. I love every one of them.”

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